Books I Read in 2015, Vol. II

 

THE RIVER
Michael Neale

"Gabriel Clarke is mysteriously drawn to The River...but something holds him back - the memory of the terrible event he witnessed on The River when he was just five years old.... In this compelling story, Gabriel learns that letting go of the past means giving himself totally to The River - heart, mind, body, and soul."

I read this novel over the course of many lunch breaks at Lifeway Christian Bookstore (where I work part-time). It was a pleasant read, but nowhere near "compelling". And I spent the whole book waiting to discover why it's considered a "Christian" book. Okay...there is no foul language or sex, but that doesn't make it "Christian", just suitable for all audiences. There are a couple paragraphs that might be trying to make the whole story an allegory about turning one's life over to God, but the connections are so few and so weak, it just doesn't get there.

Page 56/Sentence 5: After they pulled out of the parking lot, Miss Vonda made an observation.

WHY JESUS? Rediscovering His Truth in an Age of Mass Marketed Spirituality
Ravi Zacharias

"Is the Jesus mass-marketed by the spirituality gurus of today the real Jesus? And why should it matter? In WHY JESUS?, apologetics scholar Ravi Zacharias brings into focus the ever-changing shape of popular spirituality."

Got this for free from the Christian bookstore I work at part-time. Glad I didn't spend any money on it. I remember appreciating Mr. Z's earlier work, Jesus Among Other Gods, but I couldn't actually finish this one. Only made it through 9 of the 14 chapters. I know, I'm over halfway there, I ought to keep trying, but I'm all awash in his rambling on about different Hindu gurus...he has barely talked about Jesus at all so far. Maybe in the future I'll pick this up again and just read the final couple chapters where I assume he'll finally come to the point, but for now, I need something a little more mindless...just to clear out all the rubble that's collecting on the floor of my brain from chiseling away on this.

56/5: He believed I had betrayed my culture by becoming a Christian and somehow made the assumption that the purpose in my meeting him was to convert him to Christianity.

THE PRAYER OF JESUS: Secrets to Real Intimacy with God
Hank Hanegraaf

"My friend has given us another powerful exposition - a highly readable but insightful look at prayer, the first of the spiritual disciplines. You'll find this timely and richly rewarding." (Charles Colson)

This book was obviously written as a response to, and probably an attempt to capitalize on, the wildly successful book by Bruce Wilkerson, The Prayer of Jabez. The author reminds us that prayer is not all about getting things we want but about our relationship with God. He walks through "The Lord's Prayer" (Our Father, who art in heaven...) in short chapters that don't so much pack a whollop as they just kind of say what you'd expect to be said. Not a life-changer, by any means. But again, maybe that's because this isn't the FIRST book I've read based on that bit-o-Scripture. Maybe somebody coming to it for the first time would be more impressed/affected.

56/5: Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?

How To Be a Husband
Tim Dowling

"With the sharp wit that has made his Guardian columns a must-read, Dowling explores what it means to be a good husband in the 21st century. The bar has been raised dramatically in the last few decades; back in the day, every time you went out for cigarettes, it was simply expected that you came back. Now, every time you're sent out for espresso and tampons, it is expected that you come back with the right sort."

I stumbled upon this on the library's "Browse" shelf and am glad I did. Every page made me smile, and I actually enjoyed a hearty laugh every couple. So...not accurate to call it "riotously funny," but certainly a witty, self-deprecating work of value. Fair warning, Dowling goes just a hair beyond PG-13 with his word choice from time to time, but he also comes up with gems like "By getting married I opened myself to a pretty comprehensive exploration of my capacity to disappoint," and "It's still dark when the phone I have placed halfway up the stairs to our attic bedroom - as far as its cord will reach - starts ringing. I have forgotten about this arrangement and trip over it on my way down. I end up on all fours on the landing feeling around for the loose receiver. 'Is that Mr. Dowling?' says a voice, in response to the crash and muffled swearing I have substituted for 'hello'."

56/5: When you begin to lose interest in an argument either because you're hungry or bored or you've simply run out of steam, scan your brain for ways in which you could be wrong.

EXPLORING CALVIN AND HOBBES: An Exhibition Catalogue
Bill Watterson

"[This book] is the catalogue for the exhibition of Bill Watterson's comic strip art at The Billy Ireland Cartoon Library & Museum, The Ohio State University Libraries. Includes new interview with Bill Watterson."

Such a low-key back cover for such a momentous publication. Cartoonist Bill Watterson is not only the creator of the best comic strip of all time (IMHO), but has famously avoided interviews and media attention his whole career. The 35-page interview with Jenny Robb and Watterson's comments accompanying the reproductions of his original artwork will educate and thrill any fan of C & H and any student of the comic art form.

56/5: That way, I could rule the panels for both strips at the same time without setting up a new sheet and remeasuring.

The Hope Quotient
Ray Johnston

"Using seven years of research, powerful biblical illustrations, and compelling human-interest stories, Ray Johnston explains how seven essential factors will support, sustain, and strengthen your hope. And when consciously built into your life, how they will unleash hope in your marriage, your kids, your career, your church, your community, and the world."

This started out feeling like the author was over-selling his point. It was like he took a sermon on the importance of Jesus and just substituted the word "hope". The good news is, Mr. J redeemed himself in the subsequent chapters and turned the book into an encouraging collection of real-life examples and sage wisdom. Consider this Oswald Chambers quote, featured in the chapter called "Refocus on the Future": "Beware of spending too much time looking back at what you once were when God wants you to become something you have never been."

56/5: My own faith and expectations were challenged like nothing I've ever experienced when I read the 2011 authorized biography of Steve Jobs, by Walter Isaacson.

Stuff Christians Like
Jonathan Acuff

"Sometimes, you fall in love on mission trips even though you know you'll break up as soon as you get back. Sometimes, you have to shot block a friend's prayer because she's asking God to bless an obviously bad dating relationship. Sometimes, you think, 'I wish I had a T-shirt that said, "I direct deposit my tithe" so people sitting near me at church wouldn't judge me.' Sometimes, the stuff that comes with faith is funny. This is that stuff."

Not sure if I actually laughed out loud at more than ten or twenty of the...um...lots of pieces in this book, but I certainly smiled so much that my cheeks got sore. This is truly a work of satire as most of the barbs are not only slightly exaggerated but well-aimed. And where else can you read about "Judging Fundamentalists for Being Judgmental" and "Trying to Say Something Christiany Without Looking Like a Snake Handler"?

56/5: I didn't formally include the Encore-ist on the list because even God can't stand that person.

I Remember Me
Carl Reiner

"For over half a century, millions have appreciated Carl Reiner's work as a comedian, actor, director, TV writer, and author. Winner of numerous accolades, including 12 Emmy wins and one Grammy award, CR once again brandishes his literary talents to tell the story of his life....an American tapestry of colorful tales...bringing us up to date with the mature insight of a man whose remarkable trajectory has sent him to the top of Hollywood's elite and sparked the careers of dozens of household-name entertainers."

Having thoroughly enjoyed his previous memoir, My Anectodal Life, I had high expectations for this tome...and wasn't disappointed. Reiner's obvious enjoyment at having his readers grin and laugh at some of the crazy events of his life made it feel as if I was sitting at his dinner table while he spun tales like "The Search for the World's Funniest Number" (from which comes the following Page 56/Sentence 5 quote).

56/5: The candidates were: fourteen, twenty-five, seventy-one, eighty-eight, sixteen, twelve, one, double zero, the ever-popular sixty-nine.

Books I Read in 2015, Vol. I

 

A FAMILY GUIDE TO NARNIA: Biblical Truths in C. S. Lewis's The Chronicles of Narnia
Christin Ditchfield

From the dustjacket: "Do you read The Chronicles of Narnia sensing that the stories are full of biblical parallels, even if you're not always sure what they are or where to find them? This user-friendly companion to The Chronicles of Narnia is written for readers like you who want to discover the books' biblical and Christian roots. Read it, and you'll find that this chapter-by-chapter, book-by-book examination of The Chronicles will widen your spiritual vision."

From me: I don't know about widening my spiritual vision, but this really is a book I wish I had had when I was reading Narnia to my kids. The short chapters give just enough insight into the Narnia chapters as to be helpful without being burdensome. I could see reading a chapter of Narnia to the kids, then talking about the corresponding chapter in Family Guide.

Page 56/Sentence 5: It made for an interesting explanation for the White Witch's origin in a fairy tale, but as C. S. Lewis knew well, the Bible says Adam's first and only wife was Eve (Genesis 3:20).

BETWEEN A ROCK AND A GRACE PLACE
Carol Kent

"Carol Kent and her husband, Gene, are now living what some would call a heartbreaking life -- their son, Jason, a young man who initially had so much promise, is now living out a life sentence for murder in a maximum-security prison. All their appeals have been exhausted at both the state and federal levels -- humanly speaking, they have run out of options....a riveting journey of facing the impassable obstacles of life and discovering the last thing ever expected -- the sweet spot of grace."

This is another book that I read little by little - usually during an unexpected wait when I happened to have my iPad with me. The result of that is not picking up on any progression through the book, but I'm pretty sure there isn't one anyway. Each chapter is just another example of some silver lining found behind the cloud of the author's son's incarceration. But I don't mean to make that sound ho-hum. The subtitle of the book is very appropriate and a fine message to internalize: Divine Surprises in the Tight Spots of Life.

56/5: Landscape - The sound [cats] make when they are fearful or forced into situations they dislike is a strident wail that assaults human ears. Portrait - [God] uses folks like Nurse Betty; my best friend, Jan; and even strangers and supposed "enemies" to help us make it through the most difficult challenges of our lives.

10 DAYS WITHOUT: Daring Adventures in Discomfort That Will Change Your World and You
Daniel Ryan Day

"Daniel Day could tell you all about his love for God and his desire to live as a follower of Jesus. yet it took a simple but radical experiment to move from merely talking about it to actually living it. For ten days at a time, Daniel chose to abandon a certain "necessity" - a coat, his voice, shoes, media, furniture, legs, touch - and to blog about it to raise funds and awareness for organizations that are doing amazing things to make a difference in the world."

Thoroughly intriguing book and one I wish I had not read...because now I have to ask myself, "What's keeping you from doing this yourself? How could YOU make a difference in some of these issues?"

56/5: I recently sat next to two older women in a coffee shop, one of whom was talking about her husband.

I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH FAITH TO BE AN ATHEIST
Norman L. Geisler & Frank Turek

"Clear, complete, compelling - this terrific resource will help both Christians and seekers understand the rational basis for Christianity. I wish it had been available when I was an atheist - it would have saved a lot of time in my spiritual journey toward God! (Lee Strobel, author of The Case for Christ and The Case for Faith)"

I'm not sure it's possible for me to over-recommend this book. It is a clear, organized, unemotional setting forth of reasonable, logical, historical...dare I say it...scientific reasons why a belief in God, creation, miracles, Jesus' resurrection, etc. doesn't require the checking of one's brains at the door. Just as all my atheist friends want me to read Richard Dawkins (and I've tried...oh I've tried), I want anyone who is honestly open to going where the evidence takes them to read THIS.

56/5: Just as the same gravity keeps all people on the ground whether they believe in it or not, the same logic applies to all people whether they believe it or not.

mary and lou and rhoda and ted and all the brilliant minds who made The Mary Tyler Moore Show a classic
Jennifer Keishin Armstrong

"The Mary Tyler Moore Show is one of the most beloved and recognized television shows of all time....[this book] tells the stories behind the making of this popular classic, introducing the groundbreaking female writers who lent real-life stories to their TV scripts; the men who created the indelible characters; the lone woman network executive who cast the legendary ensemble...and the colorful cast of actors who made it all work."

Laying aside the fact that the show's actual title was mary tyler moore (not "The Mary Tyler Moore Show"), this book is otherwise full of tasty facts and engrossing stories. It reminds the reader that this show that now seems so tame was once considered ground-breaking. A thoroughly enjoyable read for a behind-the-scenes junkie like me.

56/5: Other women in the business looked to her as an example - if she could do it, maybe they could, too.

SIGNS AND WONDERS: A Harmony Novel
Philip Gulley

"Once again, through deft storytelling and his own irresistible brand of humor, Phil Gulley explores the depths of the heartland's heart. (Paul Harvey, Jr.)"

This is the third Gulley novel based on the fictional town of Harmony, Indiana. I have thoroughly enjoyed them all. It's a bit of a misnomer to call it a novel, however. It's more a collection of short stories with intertwining characters...and hilarious commentary on small-town life; particularly small-town church life. One of this book's laughs had to do with questioning the wisdom of having the town's funeral director also be the ambulance driver...doesn't give him much incentive to get to the hospital quickly. There's also plenty of merriment in the story about the annual pumpkin toss being won by the former Sausage Queen.

56/5: It's about the only time Dale Hinshaw is bearable.

I, MICHAEL BENNETT
James Patterson & Michael Ledwidge

From Amazon: "Michael Bennett, is a detective with the New York City Police Department and has been for more then twenty years. He is always involved in high profile cases and this book is probably his biggest case. Thru some very intricate and upsetting moves Michael had caught Manuel Perrine, a drug lord. Unfortunately, in the mission he will lose one of his dearest childhood friends. Nobody is safe now that Perrine is in custody and he has enough money and contacts to dictate from jail who and when to kill people."

Not really sure I should say I read this...to be truthful, I listened to the audiobook (while commuting to my part-time job). I randomly borrowed it from the library in order to do a little research on audio books' formatting. The possibility of voicing audiobooks is interesting to me. It only took a couple chapters to get wrapped up in the story, though. It was a nice bit of escapist action/suspense.

KILLING JESUS: The Unknown Conspiracy Behind The World's Most Famous Execution
Stephen Mansfield

"It is the most fiercely debated murder of all time. Its symbol is worn by billions of people worldwide. Its spiritual meaning is invoked daily in time-honored rituals....Approaching the story at its most human level, Mansfield uses both secular sources and biblical accounts to bring fresh perspective to the human drama, political intrigue, and criminal network behind the killing of the world's most famous man."

Almost reading like a novel, the book almost lives up to the dust jacket blurb. It IS an engrossing telling of the behind-the-scenes motivations of the major players in Jesus' crucifixion. I can't say it was really all that revelatory for ME, but it would be a great introduction/explanation for someone who's never really looked into it before.

56/5: He passes his eyes over Jerusalem as though seeing her for the first time.

Books I Read in 2014, Vol. III

 

THE JESUS FILES
Doug Powell

From the publisher: "More has been written about Jesus Christ than any other person who ever lived. But how much can we really know about Jesus? Using paintings and vintage photos of the Holy Land, The Jesus Files captures the reality of the events, places, and people in the life of Christ. Plus, the meaning of Jesus and the theological importance of the events of his life are explained as you explore the greatest story ever told."

From me: This is a great little book for introducing a person to the basics of the gospel story. It is visually appealing and concise in what it says. The tail-end section is an apologetic for the resurrection of Jesus. It touches all the major attempts to explain away his empty tomb, and answers them well, but is probably too abridged to satisfy a true skeptic. The one passage that was the biggest revelation to me...something I had never heard before...centered on Jesus' birth: "[Joseph] probably had relatives [in Bethlehem], and therefore the first place he would go would be to their house. The typical house in Israel had three rooms. One for cooking and sleeping, one for the animals, and one for guests. The guest room gets translated as 'inn' in our English Bibles. We think of an inn as a hotel, and the Greek word can mean that. But Bethlehem was too small to have a hotel and it was not on a major road where a hotel would be needed. Many guest rooms were above the rest of the house and were called 'upper rooms'. Luke uses the same Greek word to refer to the upper room where the Last Supper took place and the 'inn' that was full in Bethlehem. But when Luke records the parable of the Good Samaritan, he uses the Greek word that can only mean 'hotel'. He may have used a different word to record Jesus' birth because it was not a hotel."

Page 56/5th sentence: When Jesus ascended, he finally received the glory and honor that was his.

DEWEY: The Small-Town Library Cat Who Touched the World
Vicki Myron with Bret Witter

"How many lives can one cat touch? How is it possible for an abandoned kitten to transform a small library, save a classic American town, and eventually become famous around the world? You can't even begin to answer those questions until you hear the charming story of Dewey Readmore Books, the beloved library cat of Spencer, Iowa."

I was loaned this book by a friend who thought it was cool that the cat and I share the same name. I wasn't expecting a lot from it, but certainly got more than I expected. It's not JUST a true story about a rescued cat. It's also the true story of a rescued woman (the author) and how giving love and attention to an animal got her - and the whole town of Spencer - through some rough times. It is no spoiler to reveal that Dewey dies, but I was surprised to find myself crying just a little when he did.

56/5: He joined a cattle-buying business, then started selling insurance. [NOTE: That's not talking about the cat.]

ABBA'S CHILD: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging
Brennan Manning

"God is calling us to take the mask off and come openly to Him. God longs for us to know in the depth of our being that He loves us and accepts us as we are. When we are our true selves, we can finally claim our identity as God's child - Abba's child - and experience His pure pleasure in who we are. Manning encourages readers to let go of the imposter lifestyle and freely accept our belovedness as a child of the heavenly Father."

I have appreciated Brennan Manning's wisdom, honesty, and simplicity for several years, and this volume did not disappoint me in any way. Let the following quote from the forward encourage you to read this book for yourself: "There have been times when the felt presence of God was more real to me than the chair I am sitting on; when the Word ricocheted like broken-backed lightning in every corner of my soul. And there have been other times...when the Word was as stale as old ice cream and as bland as tame sausage; when the fire in my belly flickered and died; when I mistook dried-up enthusiasm for gray-haired wisdom; when I dismissed youthful idealism as mere naivete.... If you relate to any of these experiences, you might want to browse through this book and pause to reclaim your core identity as Abba's Child."

56/5: We agreed that one humble strawberry had more power than all my pompous inanities.

LETTERS FROM A PEASANT
Brent Olson

"Brent Olson is a sneaky writer. These little essays are like dried tomatoes mysteriously hydrated; they keep expanding to be about the United States, the human condition, and how to live a just life. (Bill Holm, Author)"

This is the second time through this book for me. I decided to pick it up again to keep my mind occupied while eating lunch at work. My first time reading it was part of the inspiration for my humor blog, "Almost the Truth" (www.almostthetruth.blogspot.com). It's why I originally thought that blog would have some significant things to say through its humor...yeah, well, you can't have everything. Plenty of laughs here, along with some good ol', down-home thoughtful thoughts.

56/5: See, this is not only entertaining, it's educational as well.

GRACE: More Than We Deserve; Greater Than We Imagine
Max Lucado

"We talk as though we understand the term "grace". The bank gives us a grace period. The seedy politician falls from grace. We describe an actress as gracious, a dancer as graceful. We use the word for hospitals, baby girls, kings, and pre-meal prayers. But do we really understand it? Max Lucado asks a deep question: Have you been changed by grace? Shaped by grace? Strengthened and emboldened and softened by grace? Snatched by the nape of the neck and shaken to your senses by grace? Grace is the voice that calls us to change and then gives us the power to pull it off."

I've been reading this book in bits and pieces for the past several months; an "advanced reader's copy" from the back room of the Christian bookstore I work at. Like most of Lucado's books, it's full of illustrative stories and vivid word pictures and pastoral care, advice, and challenge. But also like most of his work, it goes down easy but doesn't really make much of an impact. It's like eating cotton candy...an enjoyable experience, but not deeply nutritious. Don't get me wrong...I appreciate Max Lucado, and there are plenty of quotable quotes to be quoted, but he never really makes me think.

56/5: If hurts were hairs, we'd all look like grizzlies.

A.D. 30: A Novel
Ted Dekker

"A sweeping epic set in the harsh deserts of Arabia and ancient Palestine. A war that rages between kingdoms on the earth and in the heart. The harrowing journey of the woman at the center of it all. Step back in time to the year of our Lord, A.D. 30."

My only previous experience with reading Ted Dekker being the highly-disappointing House, I came to this tome with low expectations...all of which were exceeded. (Wait, does that mean I liked this, or not?) To clarify, let me say that, while it took a few chapters to start caring about the characters, it finally kicked in for me during the realistic description of a grueling trek across the desert. Gone were the confusing, boring, supernatural boogieman theatrics of House...replaced by a compelling realism. When the traveling band meets Jesus face-to-face...bingo.

56/5: I could not keep my sorrow at bay, but I did not wish to appear weak, so I kept my thoughts to myself and mourned in silence.

A CHRISTMAS CAROL
Charles Dickens

I don't REALLY need to reproduce a publisher's blurb here, do I?

Beyond a doubt, finally reading this after years of loving Mister Magoo's Christmas Carol and various other Hollywood renditions was an absolute treat! And rest assured, reading the novella was neither spoiled by those movies and TV specials, nor did it spoil my appreciation for them. It was excellent to read Dickens' scene descriptions and realize how faithful the screen adaptations have been, mostly. It was also interesting to come across a couple scenes that, as far as I know, have never made it to the silver screen, small or large. Of additional interest was this particular (free) iBook edition, which includes reproductions of Mr. D's handwritten manuscript pages.

56/5: Landscape: It swung so softly in the outset that it scarcely made a sound; but soon rang out loudly, and so did every bell in the house. Portrait: Every one of them wore chains like Marley's Ghost; some few (they might be guilty governments) were linked together; none were free.

Roth Family Christmas Epistle 2014

KELLY JO has been a nanny for three families this year, all while raising her own precious ANAWYNN, who turned one in April. Husband DUSTIN, having completed a second Masters degree, received his official Minnesota teaching license (yahoo yippity!) and also performed and toured with Arena Dances, a Minneapolis-based dance company. Debbie was overjoyed to be able to spend several Thursday evenings hanging out with Miss Anawynn while Mommy enjoyed being in one of Daddy's dance classes.

CURTIS had a major change in his life this year, making things official with ABBEY LINDSTROM and setting a wedding date for the first weekend in May 2015. He has also been accepted as a student at Crown College, in St. Bonifacius, MN, where he plans to major in cross-cultural ministry. We're still waiting to hear about Abbey's application at the same school. In any case, they plan to live here at the Roth Household until school starts in the fall. For the record, we think this gal is pretty sweet and will be a great partner in ministry (she is currently our church's worship intern).

SHONDA and JOHN are still...still living in Cabot, Arkansas; still serving in the Air Force and working in child care; still enjoying their dog, Rocky. Editor's Note: Don't blame me for this picture; it's what Shonda sent me. Apparently, John still doesn't get too excited about having his picture taken. GO REDS!

ANGEL and PHIL and JESSE (who just turned three on December 4th) welcomed the newest member of the Stanley Clan on February 15, THOMAS ELLIOT. All the adjustments and sacrifices it takes when a new baby comes home to stay have been more than made up for with the little man's happy demeanor. And those brothers really love each other. Mommy and Daddy are still teaching (1st grade and high school art, respectively) and are grateful for the two-week Christmas break this year.

DEWEY and DEBBIE had both highs and lows this year, as we're sure everyone else has, too.

LOWS: In July, Dewey's dad suddenly passed away. You can read his take on it all in these two blog posts from Almost the Truth (http://www.almostthetruth.blogspot.com/2014/08/the-king-is-dead-long-live-king.html) and Truth Is... (http://deweytruth.blogspot.com/2014/08/live-on-dad.html) Also, Dewey's job as a technical writer for the world's 2nd-largest computer network came to a close on September 30th. Harris IT Services lost their bid to become prime contractor with the Department of Defense, so the whole team was laid off. 'Twas an honor to be Last Man Standing after everyone else left in phases, but the result is the same: looking for a position in corporate communications or technical writing.

HIGHS: Debbie got word that she will be a speaker/singer/worship leader for the Lake James (IN) Area Women's Retreat; something she has wanted to do for some time (http://www.restinhimministry.com). And we got our own addition to the family in the form of MARCO, a Pom-Chi born September 9th. Mom is a Pomeranian-Chihuahua mix, and Dad is a teacup Chihuahua, so he's a cute little guy that doesn't eat much.

OUR WARMEST WISHES for a comfort that's deeper than circumstances and a New Year that's full of the joy of Jesus in your hearts!

Books I Read in 2014, Vol. II

 

The Count of Monte Cristo
Alexandre Dumas

"The story of Edmund Dantes, self-styled Count of Monte Cristo, is told with consummate skill. The victim of a miscarriage of justice, Dantes is fired by a desire for retribution and empowered by a stroke of providence. In his campaign of vengeance, he becomes an anonymous agent of fate. The sensational narrative of intrigue, betrayal, escape, and triumphant revenge moves at a cracking pace. Dumas' novel presents a  powerful conflict between good and evil embodied in an epic saga of rich  diversity that is complicated by the hero's ultimate discomfort with  the hubristic implication of his own actions."

I've had this book on my iPad (free, through iBooks) for a couple years, but had put off reading it because of its length (1,598 pages portrait; 3,060 landscape). And even now, though it's the only book I've been working on since May, I'm not quite finished. But it is definitely worth it. While I've had a little difficulty keeping some of the characters distinct from each other, and there are long stretches where things are happening, but nothing that really moves the plot forward, this mammoth work has earned the place it holds in literature. A true classic with a meaningful tale to tell. And it's decently quotable, as well:

• "Dantes had exhausted all human resources, and he then turned to God. All the pious ideas that had been so long forgotten, returned; he recollected the prayers his mother had taught him, and discovered new meaning in every word; for in prosperity prayers seem but a mere medley of words, until misfortune comes and the unhappy sufferer first understands the meaning of the sublime language in which he invokes the pity of heaven!"
• "There are two distinct sorts of ideas, those that proceed from the head and those that emanate from the heart."
• "Then sleep here, my dear count. The conditions are favorable; what else was opera invented for?"

Page 56/Sentence 5:

Portrait: Dantes, perceiving the affectionate eagerness of his father,  responded by a look of grateful pleasure; while Mercedes glanced at the clock and made an expressive gesture to Edmond.

Landscape: Believe me, to seek a quarrel with a man is a bad method of pleasing the woman who loves that man.

Thinking About Drinking

 

I've been thinking about writing something about drinking alcohol.

Part of me thinks it's funny and would fit at my humor blog, Almost the Truth (http://www.AlmostTheTruth.blogspot.com)...like...how I was brought up in a very conservative church and basically thought any alcohol-drinking was wrong, but then moved to Minnesota where all the Christians are more enlightened and live in the freedom of knowing that the Bible doesn't say "don't drink," just "don't get drunk," so I'm okay with people drinking, I really, really am...I just wish they wouldn't enjoy it so much! A little residual guilt wouldn't hurt, would it?

And I've thought about how some people like to drink beer and compare micro-brews and describe flavors as "hoppy" or "woody" or "whatevery"...and that I'm just as strange for my celebration of Skyline Chili and Dr Pepper...but that I've never heard anyone excuse themselves for anything because of an appreciation of soda pop: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said those things last night, I had a little bit too much Dr Pepper." "Whoa...how did I end up on your couch? Did I really drink that much Dr Pepper?" or the saddest..."I'm going to have to take your license; you've got a blood Dr Pepper content of 0.23."

That last one is far too serious for the humor blog, so another part of me thinks this should all go to my other blog, Truth Is... (http://www.DeweyTruth.blogspot.com)...like...comparing the whole should-a-Christian-drink thing to Paul's discussion in his letter to the Romans about how meat sacrificed to idols wasn't a big deal at all...except if a person thinks it is...and how he chose to give up his freedom if it was going to injure the conscience of a brother or sister in Christ. But I've always wanted to steer clear of overt negativity or sounding judgmental or just ranting against things.

So I figured I should just think about it if I must, but give up the thought of putting the thoughts into words and putting the words into the World Wide Web. Nobody needs to know what I'm thinking, after all.

And then I saw this video...Patrick Roche counting backwards through his life and sending a chill down my spine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LnMhy8kDiQ

Watch that and tell me you can guarantee you would never be like his dad. Watch that and tell me you've got it all under control.

Even if a person has never...ever...had impaired decision making or reactions because of alcohol...I just don't understand the great attraction that would cause a person to risk a single step down that road. Now...some people that I love an awful lot have a little to drink from time to time and I am okay with that...but I admit right here and right now that I'm a bit conflicted about the whole thing.

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When I originally posted this as a Facebook Note, it led to a very thoughtful and respectful discussion...which is a noteworthy event of its own:

Lynn McKillip Smalling: Well said. Thanks

Jan Olson: Dewey, it's refreshing to hear this. Would love to have a chat sometime.

Johnny Guist: Are you conflicted because you think it is impossible to consume alcohol without risk? Because then you would need to apply this logic to any type of relationship between male and female...it runs the risk of leading to regret. Or doughnuts, doughnut holes, or any foodstuffs with little or no redeeming qualities.

I know that sounds silly, but I am serious. I do get your logic and I agree with it in context, for me it is situational (NOT relative). I don't see the inherent risk on the broad scale that you seem to imply.

I watched the video. I'm saddened by that kid's loss, and I'm talking about a life without a healthy Father and all of the garbage that addiction brings.

But it doesn't make the case (for me) that I risk becoming that young man's father to my children. Patrick's Dad was an addict. In the 30 years I have consumed different types of alcohol I have yet to binge, blackout, or display any type of addicted behavior. Might I in the next 30 years? It's possible, but extremely unlikely.

Either side of this discussion can lead to the twisting of scripture and the damaging of relationships. I think what you have proposed is well-written, thoughtful & thought-provoking...but I see it from a different perspective. I think you should post it on all of your blogs...it's a very real discussion to have.

I have always tried to view these types of discussions through the filter of Philippians 3:15-16. You are a dear, wise, and mature Christian brother to me Dewey, someone I cherish, respect, and trust. I hope my response was filtered through the aforementioned scripture. God bless you, bro!!

Johnny Guist: p.s. I do think people should know what you're thinking, you have some deep stuff brewing in that brain of yours!!

Eric Robert Lee: There is no way to remove all risk from life. There is no clear line between substances that are drugs and ones that are not. There is also no clear line between sobriety and intoxication. "Slippery slope" arguments are pointless because we all live our lives on countless slippery slopes, every day.

Dewey Roth: Interesting, Eric. Hmmm...

Jennifer Haapala Merhar: Wow. The video is awesome. I did not experience that kind of childhood. My father was killed in an accident working in the mines on the Iron Range. However, my memories of him are short since I was only eight at the time and unfortunately a few of them are alcohol-related. Nothing like this young man's father. Mine was always loving but I remember feeling embarrassed once because of his drinking. I do enjoy an adult beverage now and then. I am responsible. Alcoholism runs in my family and it can be a slippery slope but like Eric said we live on a lot of slippery slopes on other issues every day. I do not want to invalidate this young man's message in the video. He lived through a hell that we need to help with. Drinking responsibly also means being aware of others who are not and stepping up to the plate to stop them/ talk to them/help them. Don't feel conflicted Dewey. On this slippery slope, you are standing on solid ground.

Dewey Roth: To answer John's question, "Are you conflicted because you think it is impossible to consume alcohol without risk?" That would be a no. One, because I DO think it's possible; though one can only find out if it's possible for themselves through trial and error, and that's a dangerous learning technique. Two, Eric is right that we cannot eliminate risk from our lives...but we CAN reduce it tremendously and still have a rich, full existence.

I guess the main source of the conflicted feelings is the whole conservative upbringing thing and what it looks like to The Average Person and really wondering why drinking alcohol is attractive at all. Again, I mean no (dun-dun-dun) Judgement...just sharing my heart and appreciating y'all's input.

Jeremy Bracey: Here is where I struggle on this one. For me, no risk. Glass of wine, a beer after mowing lawn.... I am all good. I have no desire for more. I DO NOT WANT a buzz. For me, I don't see the risk that Dewey is suggesting. But for others, I may be the excuse that it's okay for them to drink. IF for that person that it's not OK, they don't have control, I don't want to be the excuse used to cause them to stumble. I am probably not going to say that I won't continue to enjoy a glass of wine from time to time. But I am going to be very careful about how I empower someone else to stumble.

David Stanley: Dewey - responding to your question on why drinking alcohol is attractive at all - I would answer that for many of us who enjoy booze, it's attractive for the same reasons Dr. Pepper is attractive to you - it's really, really good. Many wines, beers, and liquors are very complex creations that just simply taste fantastic or pair really well with certain food. The fact that they contain alcohol is often not even considered because we know our limits and are not drinking to that end. Obviously, there are many who drink because of the effects of the alcohol, but I think the vast majority of people are drinking for other reasons than just getting drunk. I trust myself enough to know when enough is enough, so am not worried about a slippery slope, but realize that is not the case for everyone. I can respect those that choose not to drink too

Johnny Guist: I like the tastes, the nuances, and there is a healthy culture as well as an unhealthy one centered around certain types of liquor.

Kitty Atchison Crary:

The June issue of Christianity Today has two articles about alcohol. The first is Why I Gave Up Alcohol. The second is called This Is What a Progressive Looks Like. It is about the Temperance movement, going back into the 1800s. You might be able to find them on ChristianityToday.com. I grew up in a family that drank beer and wine when I was small and gave up alcohol when my parents were converted to Christ. That happened when I was about 12. I think I am the only one of six children in that family who is still a teetotaler.

Eric Robert Lee: I am enjoying reading everyone's comments. This is one of those issues that is extremely complex, and I cannot find myself able to agree or disagree completely with anyone.

I am one of those beer lovers to which Dewey referred. I like sweet tropical stouts, dark German lagers, and nutty British ales (among others). While the allure to drinking is, for me, mostly the taste (I so LOVE the taste), I won't deny how I feel it can enhance social gatherings as well. On the other hand, I don't drink often enough to be considered even a moderate drinker. I go for weeks to months at a time with no beer in my fridge. In part, this is because it can irritate my acid reflux. When I do imbibe, it is rarely more than one or two beers at a time.

Having said all of that, I have become "drunk" plenty of times over the course of my life, but probably a vast number less than the average person. Still, here is where I think those who say they never get "drunk" are being disingenuous. There is no magical line that one crosses to suddenly become intoxicated. All such lines (like blood alcohol content) are arbitrary. I know that I can start to feel the difference in myself halfway through my first beer (and so can most everyone, if they are being honest).

I have never taken a recreational drug other than alcohol (unless you want to count things like caffeine, which is fair). I've never smoked a cigarette and I've never tried marijuana. I have, in the past, taken great pride in this fact, but I now find it harder to do so because I do take alcohol, and I see no difference that isn't pure justification.

Dewey is right. Those of us who drink responsibly can say, "look at how I've got it all under control," but no one knows what kind of predisposition to alcoholism they may have when they decide to take that very first sip.

As for risk reduction in life, I think 100% sobriety is an intelligent choice. On the other hand, driving a car (not talking about drunk driving here) is one of the greatest risks that we take on a daily basis. We put our children in those dangerous mobile boxes, and we turn the keys over to them when they are a mere 16 years old. I'm not so sure about the wisdom in that.

So anyway, those are some of my ramblings that I have to contribute. 🙂

Kitty Atchison Crary: I was married to a man who grew up in a family with a mean drunk as a dad. My husband was dead set against drinking as a result, which probably influences my actions today. I also agree with Jeremy's reasoning about causing others to stumble. That said, I do not condemn anyone who chooses to drink responsibly.

Eric Robert Lee: Wow! Check this out. 10% isn't all that small of a number.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/rele.../2014/06/140627140042.htm

One in 10 deaths among working-age adults in U.S. due to excessive drinking, report finds. SCIENCEDAILY.COM

Books I Read in 2014, Vol. I

 

WHATEVER IT TAKES: The True Story of a Fan Making It Into the NFL
Daniel Kelly

"...the amazing and true story of a fan growing up in a small town, dreaming of one day making it into the NFL. Without any college or pro playing or coaching experience and against all the odds, his dream came true....It's a story of overcoming the greatest adversities life has to offer. Perhaps the most incredible part is what he found on the other side of the dream."

I came by this book in a strange way. The author sent me a copy, including a note of thanks for a sermon he heard me preach that gave him the oomph to "lay it all on the line" and tell his story. That, of course, makes me want to give this a raving review.

56/5: This was home to the New York Islanders hockey team.

EVERYBODY KILLS SOMEBODY SOMETIME: A Rat Pack Mystery
Robert J. Bandisi

"Eddie Gianelli is a pit boss at the Sands, Las Vegas, 1960. After twelve years, he's got the whole town wired, but he's still surprised when Joey Bishop drops by his table and invites him to meet with Frank Sinatra in the Rat Pack's private steam room. Frank asks Eddie to find out who's been sending threatening letters to Deano..."

This is the first of a series of Rat Pack Mysteries (I read the second, Hey There, You with the Gun in Your Hand, last year). It sets up the story as a long memory of an aging Eddie, after the Sands is demolished. There is certainly more sexuality and vulgar language than Hey There..., but it's still a thoroughly enjoyable read. While the mystery element is present, it feels more like an homage to Vegas and the Rat Pack than a nail-biter of a thriller.

56/5: That the guy?

I AM A CHURCH MEMBER: Discovering the Attitude that Makes the Difference
Thom S. Rainer

"It is impossible to grow to spiritual maturity by yourself. You must be connected to the other parts of the body. This wonderful little book explains the power of belonging to a church family. (Rick Warren) If you love your church, are frustrated with your church, or don't understand why membership matters, I encourage you to pick this book up and read it. (Matt Chandler)"

I've copied the above endorsements because I agree with them. This is an easy, short (79 pages) read, but it packs a wallop when it comes to nailing down what kind of "church member" God calls us to be. If you don't feel connected in your local church, read this book and start living up to its challenges.

56/5: I was a young businessman in my early twenties.

THE WRECKING CREW: The Inside Story of Rock and Roll's Best-Kept Secret
Kent Hartman

"If you were a fan of popular music in the 1960s and early '70s, you were a fan of the Wrecking Crew - whether you knew it or not. On hit record after hit record by everyone from the Byrds, the Beach Boys, and the Monkees to the Grass Roots, the 5th Dimension, Sonny & Cher, and Simon & Garfunkel, this collection of West Coast musicians established themselves as the driving sound of pop music - sometimes over the objection of actual band members forced to make way for Wrecking Crew members."

My kind of book...behind-the-scenes tales of the creation of some of the most iconic songs of the 60s and 70s. Thoroughly interesting and enjoyable.

56/5: But all personal preferences aside, at least a song should be played cleanly and correctly before committing it to tape.

JUST SHY OF HARMONY
Philip Gulley

"Master storyteller Philip Gulley returns to the winsome ways of Harmony, Indiana, the small Midwestern town that captured the hearts of readers in his acclaimed debut novel, 'Home to Harmony.' ...follows the happenings of an eventful year spanning two Easters, in which Quaker pastor Sam Gardner and the members of his flock discover surprising answers to life's challenging mysteries."

"Surprising answers to life's challenging mysteries" sounds a lot heavier than this is. This has the same infusion of humor and real-life-osity as "Home...", but with more of an overarching narrative and fewer chapter-length episodes tied up with pithy moral statements. Engaging and pleasant.

56/5: Sometimes when their hips are touching, the stirrings unsettle him and he'll slide away.

I QUIT BEING A CHRISTIAN TO FOLLOW JESUS
Alan Scott

"HAS THE NAME 'CHRISTIAN' LOST ITS POWER? I know there’s more.  Don’t you really know this too?  That fish on the back of your car really DOES mean something.  Its purpose should be more than merely enticing someone to honk and wish you a nice day if,  indeed, you didn’t just cut them off. The best music --- the music and song we long to hear --- has not disappeared.  We’ve just stepped strangely and temporarily off the stage.  I sense God wants to bring us back for a first-pumping encore.  Let’s scream, cheer, write, pray, search, and hunger until the real music plays again. Maybe Christians and Jesus followers everywhere will raise their Bic lighters into the air and begin wearing, again, the impeccable name of Jesus.  Let’s explore some specific strategies to  help get us there."

Alan is a great guy I've had the privilege of knowing and working with...and now I've had the privilege of reading his book. He's got a light and breezy style that makes even challenges to a deeper walk with Christ easy to read and understand. Dig this quote: "Maybe we've dropped our nets, and turned the American Church into something pursuing self-actualization. 'Bless me, feed me, make me worship, and if you don't, I'm just going to go somewhere else'."

56/5: Landscape - Dr. Luke writes in his first chapter of Acts how Jesus commanded His followers to, "...not leave Jerusalem, but wait..." (Acts 1:4). Portrait - Mary and the baby were a threat and an embarrassment to the hopes of a Messiah.

ME, MYSELF, & BOB: A True Story About Dreams, God, and Talking Vegetables
Phil Vischer

"Phil Vischer's dream, known to the world as VeggieTales, changed the landscape of children's videos. But most people have no idea of the intense struggle its creator would endure as he desperately tried to build - then witnessed the tremendous fall - of a new media empire for God."

This is, once again, my kind of book...a peek backstage into the world of entertainment...but with the addition in this case of a testimony of real-life struggles and questions and goals and, at long last, giving up and letting God do HIS thing, instead of asking Him to bless PHIL'S thing. I was never aware of the financial downfall and massive layoffs described in this book, and Vischer winds things up with not only what he learned spiritually, but as a business leader as well. A truly interesting read!

56/5: As daunting as that challenge appeared, an even more daunting challenge was staring me down first: Where would I get the money to buy the gear?.

WHO MOVED MY CHEESE? An A-Mazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life
Spencer Johnson, M.D.

"...a simple parable that reveals profound truths about change. It is an amusing and enlightening story of four characters who live in a "Maze" and look for "Cheese" to nourish them and make them happy....you can discover for yourself how to deal with change, so that you can enjoy less stress and more success (however you define it) in your work and in your life."

I was given this book 14 years ago by my then-manager. I ran across it in my search to expand the offerings at Dewey's Gently Read Books (a now-defunct Facebook page of mine) and realized that just now would be an excellent time to reacquaint myself on how to deal with change (i.e., there's a ton of uncertainty at work right now). It's a little book (94 pages) with a lot of truth in it.

56/5: He took in some deep breaths and felt invigorated by the movement.

GRIMM'S FAIRY TALES
Jacob & Wilhelm Grimm

"The Project Gutenberg eBook, Illustrated by John B. Gruelle and R. Emmett Owen"

I don't really need to explain these stories, do I? Other than to say that it was cool receiving this at no cost through iBooks and that the unfamiliar stories in this volume are just as...strange and magical...as the familiar ones; and that the familiar stories are not very much like their Disney counterparts at all. I've been reading this in spurts and starts for quite a while...one or two stories here, another one there...and just happened to have finished it at this time.

56/5: Landscape - A good meal of milk and pancakes, with sugar, apples, and nuts, was spread on the table, and in the back room were two nice little beds, covered with white, where Hansel and Grethel laid themselves down, and thought themselves in heaven. Portrait - Not long afterwards the two brothers arrived.

TORN: Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-Vs-Christians Debate
Justin Lee

"Nicknamed 'God Boy' as a teenager, Justin was committed to his evangelical faith and felt destined for a life in Christian ministry. But he had a secret: though he struggled to accept it, he also knew that he was gay. In this groundbreaking book, Justin recalls the events - his coming out to his Christian family and friends, his disillusioning experiences with the 'ex-gay' movement, and his in-depth study of the Bible - that transformed his life and faith, and led him to become one of the leading voices on the church's most polarizing issue....With grace and authority, Justin shows how people on both sides of the debate can respect, learn from, and love one another."

I've been waiting for this book to come to the library for many months...ever since Pastor Dave (https://www.blogger.com/profile/15915136880489138506) told me about it. Capsule review: TOTALLY WORTH THE WAIT! Everyone...absolutely everyone with any interest or concern or opinion about the issue of homosexuality and faith should read this book with an open mind and a tender heart. You can agree or disagree with Lee's interpretation of pertinent Bible verses, but the pressing need - and possibility - for mutual understanding and compassion has never been expressed so compellingly.

56/5: He blamed both mothers and fathers, but in his view, fathers got the lion's share of the blame.