Free Guy: An Entirely Enjoyable Return to the Movies

 

On the strength of ActorBoy's recommendation, and paid for by a very old gift card from AngelFace, I went to see Free Guy, starring Ryan Renolds, today.

The reason it was a very old gift card is, of course, because COVID-19 hit soon after I got it for Christmas in 2019. And let me tell you, just walking into the theater lobby and smelling that popcorn was a little emotional. It very well could have been two full years since I had been to a movie theater; I don't really know.

"But what about the movie, Dewey?"

Oh...well...let me just say that I never expected to enjoy a sci-fi/romantic comedy/action movie this much.

Yeah.

It hit all the right beats and nailed every joke and I wish I had a copy of the script so I could lay some of the quotable quotes on you...including the obligatory rousing "come on, guys, we can do this if we all work together" speech that leads to the film's climactic battle.

[I originally wrote "...leads to the film's climax," but I changed it because there's ANOTHER climax involving the romantic comedy aspect of the movie that I will not say anything more about so as not to spoil it for anyone...because I'm thinking y'all should go see Free Guy for yourselves.]

Fair warning...there are just enough four-letter words used to give it its PG-13 rating. And as always, they could have done without them and no one would have noticed. But I don't know...it may have gotten a PG-13 anyway for the amount of video-game-style violence.

On top of the humor and action, the movie also has some decent things to say about life-as-we-know it and how people can make a difference if they try. That's another reason why I like it so much.

There IS one quote that I'm pretty sure I'll be using in real life: "Don't have a good day. Have a great day."

Books I Read in 2021, Vol. X

 

DEEP DISCIPLESHIP: How the Church Can Make Whole Disciples of Jesus
J. T. English

"The majority of Christians today are being discipled by popular media, flashy events, and folk theology because churches have neglected their responsibility to make disciples. But the church is not a secondary platform in the mission of God; it is the primary platform God uses to grow people into the image of Jesus. [This book] equips churches to reclaim the responsibility of discipling people at any point on their journey."

I got slowed down a lot in my efforts to get this book read:

       1. Had to study my lines for the Dakota Chautauqua at the Dakota County Fair (August 9-15).

       2. The author says the same thing, over and over, not only in every chapter but in almost every paragraph. It tended to make the reading a tedious exercise in "Well, Brad bought this book for me, so I am going to read it."

Don't misunderstand. What the author had to say was worthy of being read and discussed and implemented in one form or another, it's just that it seems he took what could have been an insightful and in-depth magazine article and somehow squeezed it into 213 pages.

True confession: Each chapter ended with a section called "Main Ideas," and for the final three chapters, all I did was read those three or four main ideas and skim the chapter itself.

First Line: On Memorial Day weekend 2018 my wife and I were driving to see an orthopedic surgeon in Dallas.

Page 56/ Sentence 5: Pastors and ministers are called by God to shepherd the flock of God in front of them, not on their Twitter feed.

Last Line: Questions that hopefully will not just lead to a better philosophy of ministry, but to transformed lives that are growing deeper into fellowship with the Triune God.

Books I Read in 2021, Vol. IX

 

ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE: A Sortabiography
Eric Idle

We know him best for his unforgettable roles with Monty Python  -  from Flying Circus to The Meaning of Life. Now Eric Idle reflects on the meaning of his own life in this entertaining memoir that takes us on a remarkable journey from his childhood in an austere boarding school through his successful career in comedy. Coming of age as a writer during the Sixties and Seventies, Eric stumbled into the crossroads of the cultural revolution and found himself rubbing shoulders with the likes of George Harrison, David Bowie, and Robin Williams, all of whom became dear lifelong friends. With anecdotes sprinkled throughout involving other close friends and luminaries, Eric captures a time of tremendous creative output with equal parts hilarity and heart.

There are plenty of laughs in these pages, but just enough actual info to keep things rolling along nicely, thank you very much. Idle does a little bouncing around through time when it comes to talking about particular friendships, but there is still a general chronology that helps a person keep things in order. The emphasis is on keeping things light and humorous, while still giving the reader insights into the hard work that goes into being silly. Fair warning: in addition to the laughs, there are plenty of instances of PG-13 and R-rated language, as well.

First Line: It's October 1978 and I'm being crucified.

Page 56/Sentence 5: The clincher was they wanted us to come over for a writing recce so they could show us some of the places we could write sketches for.

Last Line: She, who sadly knows me best, thinks my last words will probably be "F*** off," but that doesn't look good on a tombstone, so instead I would like on my grave: Eric Idle. See Google.

Books I Read in 2021, Vol. VIII

 

MERE CHURCHIANITY: Finding Your Way Back to Jesus-Shaped Spirituality
Michael Spencer (The Internet Monk)

Michael Spencer discovered the truth that church officials often miss, which is that many who leave the church do so in an attempt to find Jesus. For years on his blog, Spencer showed de-churched readers how to practice their faith without the distractions of religious institutions. In Mere Churchianity, you can benefit from the wisdom and compassionate teaching that always have been hallmarks of his ministry.  Spencer’s writing points the disenchanted and dispossessed to a Jesus-shaped spirituality. And along the way, his teachings show how you can find others who will go with you on the journey.

I borrowed this from the library just because of the title, a take-off from my favorite C. S. Lewis book, Mere Christianity. I didn't even get two chapters into it before I was talking about it and recommending it to anyone listening. Spencer verges on going just a bit too far in his critique of Western Evangelicalism and organized religion, but just when you think he's going to say the concept of Church is a big waste, he reminds you that following Jesus in the company of others has always been part of the plan. I need to get my own copy of this so I can mark it up and return to it often. I need to keep reminding myself that I want to be Jesus-shaped, not church-shaped.

First Line: This book began with an atheist in a Dairy Queen, thirty-five years ago.

Page 56/5th Sentence: As a person who communicates for a living, I know the frustration of having my words turned into something I never meant.

Last Line: And finally, when we come home, we will find that Jesus has made us like himself, and yet, amazingly, we will have remained in every way ourselves.

Books I Read in 2021, Vol. VII

 

SON OF A JUNKMAN: My Life from the West Bottoms of Kansas City to the Bright Lights of Hollywood
Ed Asner (with Samuel Warren Joseph and Matthew Seymour)

"This is a life worth examining and is done so magnificently in this terrific read. Ed, you've got spunk and we LOVE spunk." (Jason Alexander, Seinfeld) "For one of the few Jews in the Kansas City Bottoms the road to the heights of show business success and fame was a tough, rocky, perilous, sometimes unforgiving one, but for this Son of a Junkman the willingness to learn, the courage to be true to himself, the 'spunk' pulled him through." (Mike Farrell, M*A*S*H)

Didn't go looking for this book, but it called to me from the library shelf. I must have been tuned in to its vibe because Beloved and I are currently watching the final season of mary tyler moore. All in all, a standard kind of show business autobiography, but I will admit to being mightily impressed with Mr. Asner's candor in admitting why his marriage failed: "I have always been universally regarded as a flirt. I was during my youth. I was while preparing to be an actor. And, I was when I achieved celebrity status. Unfortunately, I was a flirt when I was married. Actually, I was more than that. I was a cheat. It isn't easy to admit and it certainly isn't easy to write, but it's the truth. When I was married to Nancy, I cheated on her. I cheated on a woman who adored me. I cheated on a woman I adored. I cheated on the mother of my children. I failed her."

First Line: As the title of this book suggests, I am the son of a junkman.

Page 56/Sentence 5: I envied her.

Last Line: More importantly, I will always be the son of a junkman.

Books I Read in 2021, Vol. VI

 

ROCK & ROLL PREACHER: From Doo-Wop to Jesus Rock
Chuck Girard

"A look at the history of the Jesus Movement, Calvary Chapel Costa Mesa, and CCM through the eyes of one who lived it. The only history of the iconic band, LoveSong, arguably the first Christian rock band to become well-known. An account of alcohol addiction and deliverance. Explore the seductive attraction of the Hippie culture of the 60s and one man's journey through it."

Being a fan of LoveSong since the beginning, I was more than happy to actually PURCHASE this book (gasp!) and read about the life of one of the founders of Jesus Music...now known as Contemporary Christian Music. It was certainly informative but would have benefitted from the efforts of an editor and proofreader. Several typos were a bit distracting, but worse was the lack of any sense of flow or commitment to a single thought per paragraph. Chuck is so intent on making sure his readers know that he now regards his hippie/drug-culture ways of the past as evil and stupid that he keeps interrupting the story for little mini-sermons. Putting that aside, though, the book gave me what it said it would...can't complain about that.

First Line: It was early 1969 and the sun was just going down as we hit the outskirts of Las Vegas.

56/5: The Four Speeds were performing together because of the success of the record, but apparently this was just one of many irons Gary had in the fire.

Last Line: Who'd ever thought I'd be a rock and roll preacher?

Happy (?) Mother's Day

 

This was my first Mother's Day without Mom.

It's been 28 days since she died and I thought I was mostly done crying. And then Pastor Brad went and lead us in a special prayer during worship. He didn't even need to start actually praying and I was already tight-throated, unable to breathe, and sitting there with shoulders bobbing up and down in a silent sob.

It's not like I talked to her every day...or even every week...but the thought of having no one to call this afternoon gripped me hard.

But I'm grateful.

• Grateful that we were able to visit with Mom a couple times just three weeks before she passed and that she was still lucid and funny, even though her short-term memory was shot.
• Grateful that her final days weren't filled with pain or regret.
• Grateful that our relationship was always one of love and trust and that neither of those things was ever strained to a breaking point. She never gave me any reason to doubt her love for me, and I believe she could say the same about me.
• Grateful that in over 63 years of having Georgina Della Smith Roth as my mother, not once did I ever wish it weren't so.

Nobody is perfect, but God blessed me with a childhood and a life-foundation that has served me well and left me unscarred.

Her children stand and bless her.
  Her husband praises her:
“There are many virtuous and capable women in the world,
  but you surpass them all!”
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last;
  but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.

Proverbs 31:28-30 (NLT)